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Timeisrunningoutformyfriend.Whilewearesittingatlunchshecasuallymentionssheandherhusbahinkingafamily.“We’retakingasurvey，”
shesays，half-joking.“DoyouthinkIshouldhaveababy?”
“Itwillgeyourlife，”
Isay，carefullykeepiral.“Iknow，”
shesays，“nomoresleepinginonweekends，aneousholidays……”
Butthat’snotwhatImeanatall.Ilookatmyfriend，tryitotellher.Iwaoknoillneverlearninchildbirthclasses.Iwahatthephysidsofchildbearibeotherwillleaveherwithaionalwoundsorawthatshewillbevulnerableforever.
Isiderwarshewillneveragainreadathinking，“WhatifthathadbeenMYchild?”
Thateveryplanecrash，everyhousefirewillhauwheures，shewillwohingcouldbeworsethanwatgyourchilddie.Ilookathercarefullymaniailsandstylishsuitandthinkthatnomatterhowsophisticatedsheis，beotherwillreduitivelevelofabearproteghercub.
IfeelIshouldwarnomatterhowmanyyearsshehasiedinhercareer，shewillbeprofessionallyderailedbymotherhood.Shemightarrangeforchildcare，butonedayshewillbegoingintoanimportaing，ahinkherbaby’ssweetsmell.Shewillhavetouseeveryounceofdisetokeepfrhome，justtomakesureherchildisallright.
Iwaoknowthateverydewilliafive-year-oldbotothemen’sroomratherthaarestaurantwillbeajordilemma.Theissuesofindependenderidentitywillbeweighedagaithataaybelurkiory.Howeverdecisiveshemaybeattheoffice，shewillsed-guessherselftlyasamother.
Lookingatmyattractivefriend，Iwanttoassureherthateventuallyshewillshedtheaddedweightnancy，butshewillhesameaboutherself.Thatherownlife，nowsoimportant，willbeoflessvaluetoheronceshehasachild.Shewouldgiveitupiosaveher，butwillalsobegintohopeformoreyears—nottoaplishherowowatchheraplishtheirs.
Iwaomyfrieionofseeingyourchildlearntohitaball.Itureforherthebellylaughofababywhoistougthesforthefirsttime.Iwaethejoythatissorealithurts.
Myfriend’slookmakesmerealizethattearshaveformedinmyeyes.“You’ll.”
Isayfinally.Then，squeezingmyfriend’shand，Iofferaprayerforherandmeandallofthemeremortalwomenwhostumbletheirwayintothisholiestofgs.
我的朋友常常感叹岁月不饶人。
当我们坐在一起吃饭时，她偶然提到她和丈夫正考虑要个孩子的问题。
“我们在作一个调查，”
她半开玩笑地说，“你觉得我们是否该要孩子呢？”
“他会改变你的生活。”
我以适中的口吻小心翼翼地说。
“这个我知道，”
她说，“周末不能再睡懒觉了，节假日也不能随心所欲地做自己想做的事情了……”
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